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The following article is part one of a four-week series focusing on raising awareness about dating violence. February is Dating Violence Awareness month, and we hope to educate our community on this very important issue. One in three young people will experience dating violence in their lifetime. Locally, the Hays-Caldwell Women’s Center has been serving victims of domestic and dating violence, sexual assault and child abuse since 1978. Last year, HCWC served 2,257 victims of abuse (face-toface) primarily from Hays and Caldwell Counties.
Shows and movies often depict relationships that are far from healthy, romanticizing controlling behavior or portraying jealousy as a sign of love. These portrayals can send harmful messages about what relationships should look like, which is why it’s crucial to watch media with youth and engage in open conversations. These discussions play a vital role in preventing dating violence.
Media literacy, the ability to critically analyze and question what we see in media, is a vital skill for youth to develop. Watching their favorite shows together can open the door to meaningful conversations about healthy versus unhealthy behaviors, helping teens identify potential red flags and better understand what they deserve in their own relationships.
Discussing media can help youth understand the difference between entertainment and reality. While dramatic or entertaining on-screen scenarios might seem harmless, they can have real-life consequences. For many young people, films and TV shows serve as their first exposure to relationships outside their families. These conversations not only foster critical thinking and build trust but also equip youth with the tools they need to navigate relationships with confidence.
Engaging in these discussions empowers youth to recognize and demand respect, equality and healthy boundaries in their relationships. By fostering these critical skills, you’re not only helping them navigate relationships confidently but also equipping them to build a foundation for lifelong emotional well-being.
We are committed to providing free, safe, and confidential services to victims of dating violence. If you are experiencing dating violence, please call our HELPLine 24/7 at 512-396-4357. For additional information visit our educational website: stopthehurt.org. HCWC’s Prevention Educators are available to give presentations and education about dating violence.
